



The Ways of Learning
The mosquito is an automaton. It can afford to be nothing else.
There are only about one hundred thousand nerve cells in its tiny
head, and each one has to pull its weight. The only way to run
accurately and successfully through a life cycle in a matter of
days is by instinct, a series of rigid behaviors programmed by
the genes....The channels of human mental development, in contrast,
are circuitous and variable.
Edward O. Wilson, On Human Nature
Fritz wore very thick lenses in his wire-rimmed
spectacles. He was an awkward kid who mostly liked being by himself.
At age eight he was becoming an insatiable glutton for the printed
word, devouring all manner of written nourishment wherever he
found it. At first, his parents were vexed by his marathon stays
locked in the bathroom, until they found out that that was where
their eccentric Fritz felt most comfortable savoring his reading.
Fritz came to see me because of some motor problems, including
difficulty writing, along with some seeming leaks in his memory.
On several occasions, his mom and dad mentioned
that Fritz was fascinated with gadgets of any kind. He relished
getting his hands on whatever seductive apparatus was within reach.
In the car he would studiously detach or disassemble ashtrays,
loudspeakers, and door handles. His extraordinarily tolerant father
observed that Fritz was much more talented and enthusiastic when
it came to taking things apart than when putting them together!
But Mr. Powell did admit that his son was nothing short of remarkable
at fixing objects around the house.
I was able to confirm this finding when one
day I was doing a physical examination on Fritz in my office.
He saw that one of the lights I use for examining ears (my otoscope)
was not working. I told him it was broken and that I had changed
the batteries and the bulb to no avail. I had also used a well-established,
arguably primitive, Mel Levine technique; in vain, I had shaken
it repeatedly and briskly. Anyway, Fritz pounced on my otoscope
and immodestly proclaimed, "I'll fix it for you." Of
course, I consented to the proposed surgery. Fritz then inspected
the instrument, and thought out loud, "Let me see now, how
is this supposed to work?" I never would have asked myself
that question. Fritz then used his fingers and his voice to trace
and talk through the way an otoscope is supposed to work. Only
then did he go back and determine where the breakdown was occurring.
In doing so, he encountered a loose connection in the switch,
which he remedied with leverage from one of his handy talonlike
fingernails. What struck me and what I never forgot after that
was that Fritz was unwilling to repair my light without first
determining how such lights were supposed to work. I have since
applied the "Fritz Principle" in my career. That is
to say, I should never try to understand and deal with differences
in learning until I know how learning works when it's working.
So I can't figure out why a kid is enduring serious grief in algebra
unless I understand what it ordinarily takes to master algebra
-- in other words, how that kind of learning works.
How Learning Works
The most basic instrument for learning is something called a neurodevelopmental
function. Our own minds and those of our children are like tool
chests. They are filled with these delicate instruments, neurodevelopmental
functions, the various implements for learning and for applying
what's learned. Just as a carpenter might deploy different groups
of tools to complete various projects or a dentist might use different
sets of tools for different tooth tasks, our minds make use of
different clusters of neurodevelopmental functions to learn specific
skills and to create particular products. One committee of neurodevelopmental
functions enables a student to master subtraction; another squad
participates in the recitation of the Pledge of Allegiance, yet
another neurodevelopmental task force makes possible riding a
scooter.
A neurodevelopmental function may be one component
of memory, such as the ability to recall things that have been
seen in the past (i.e., visual memory), or it may be the awareness
of where within the letter "g" your pencil is located
during each instant while you form that letter. The capacity to
store and retrieve chains of information, such as the alphabet
or the events leading up to World War I, is another example of
a neurodevelopmental function. As you can surmise, the brain's
toolbox is vast, the total number of neurodevelopmental functions
inestimable. On top of that, the range of different combinations
of functions called upon to accomplish academic tasks is mind-boggling.
In view of all these moving parts, it should not surprise us that
breakdowns or specific weaknesses are commonplace. We call these
deficiencies neurodevelopmental dysfunctions. We as well as our
kids all live with our share of these flaws. Often the dysfunctions
do not seriously obstruct roads to success. But sometimes they
do.
Here are some examples of neurodevelopmental
dysfunctions. Some children have difficulty writing, even though
they have lots to say. They just can't seem to form letters quickly
and accurately enough to keep up with their flow of ideas and
words. So their writing is dramatically inferior to the richness
of their thinking or speaking. When kids write, their brains assign
specific muscles to specific aspects of letter formation; certain
muscles are supposed to handle vertical movement, others create
rotary movement, others assume responsibility for horizontal movement,
while still others operate to stabilize the pencil so it won't
fall on the floor while they write. Some kids endure agonizing
difficulty with such motor implementation; they simply can't assign
the proper muscles consistently. Therefore, writing looms as a
tormenting problem for them. This inability to assign specific
muscles to operate in the right way at the right time during letter
formation is a perfect example of a neurodevelopmental dysfunction.
Other kids have trouble finding the exact words they need when
they talk, difficulty remembering the associations between sounds
and symbols when they read, or trouble understanding complex sentences
and thereby following directions quickly and precisely enough
in the classroom. Each of these deficiencies is a specific neurodevelopmental
dysfunction and in each instance the dysfunction is likely to
interfere with learning.
All too often a neurodevelopmental dysfunction
goes undetected -- much like an unsolved crime. As was the case
with Carson, the assumption may prevail that somehow a floundering
student is not really trying, that he is lazy, unmotivated, or,
perhaps, even worse, that he's "just not too bright."
A child like Nana may be discovered to be daydreaming and fidgeting
in class, dreadfully out of focus. She is told she needs to start
paying attention in class or she'll get detention. She comes to
believe she is somehow bad. No one seems to realize that her fragile
concentration is a kind of mental fatigue or burnout; she has
neurodevelopmental dysfunctions interfering with her mind's ability
to turn on and keep up the flow of mental energy that she needs
to concentrate in class. Her neurodevelopmental dysfunction is
misread as a behavior problem when she has to combat serious mental
fatigue. She's an innocent victim of her own wiring.
Eight Systems
Approximately 30 trillion synapses or nerve linkages exist within
the human brain. That crowded network allows for plenty of strong
connections, disconnections, and misconnections -- in short, a
nearly endless combination of neurodevelopmental possibilities.
As we have seen, designated teams of neurodevelopmental functions
join together to enable kids to acquire specific abilities. When
one or more members of a team fail to show up or fail to do their
share, performance suffers. Such negative results can bring on
a backlash of emotional and motivational complications. Fortunately,
we have the wherewithal and the knowledge to mend these problems
before they get out of hand.
Schools and parents share the job of ensuring
the healthy growth of vital neurodevelopmental functions. How
then do we keep track of a mind's growth processes over the course
of a child's school career? The answer is that caring adults need
to know how these functions are supposed to be operating year
by year -- just as they might be tuned in to a child's ongoing
nutritional needs or rate of growth. At first glance, staying
on top of the many facets of a child's mind development might
appear to be a daunting, unrealistic undertaking in view of the
vast constellation of important neurodevelopmental functions.
But don't despair; to aid us in our surveillance mission, all
of the different neurodevelopmental functions can be sorted into
eight manageable categories, or neurodevelopmental systems. In
my work with schools and clinicians I have called these "the
neurodevelopmental constructs," but they are perhaps more
helpfully thought of as the systems of a mind.
In medicine we are accustomed to thinking about
overall health as the sum total of the health of various systems,
such as the cardiovascular system, the nervous system, and the
gastrointestinal system. Similarly, we can think about your child's
learning health in terms of the well-being of the eight learning
systems I am about to describe. As with the systems that operate
in our bodies, the neurodevelopmental systems are dependent on
one another. They have to work together if learning is to occur,
just as the cardiovascular system has to team up with the pulmonary
system to promote the delivery of oxygen to various parts of our
bodies.
These systems are like the major characters
in an unfolding drama. As we watch our kids grow and develop over
their school years, we need to focus on the progress of the eight
systems. At any point, the strength of functions within each system
directly influences performance in and out of school. Systems
change in their capacities. The functions can grow in their effectiveness.
They can level off. They can deteriorate. Therefore, it is important
that caring adults keep an eye on the progress in each system,
promptly detecting and dealing with any important impairments
or signs of delayed development.
The eight neurodevelopmental systems are depicted
in Figure 2-1. Individual chapters in this book focus on each
system. But first, I will provide a brief description of each.
The Attention Control System
Jesse gets a traffic ticket for speeding; he's all riled up over
it and defends (pardons) himself by proclaiming to his parents,
"I just wasn't paying attention to the speedometer. I had
other things on my mind." But Jesse often experiences such
mind lapses, and has had a long-standing difficulty directing
his attention. His mom once pointed out, "That's my Jesse.
It's absolutely incredible how he can be doing one thing and thinking
about three other things at the same time! He's concentrating
on everything but what he's doing."
Attention is the administrative bureau of the brain, the headquarters
for mental regulators that patrol and control learning and behavior.
The attention controls direct the distribution of mental energy
within our brains, so that we have the wherewithal to finish what
we start and stay alert throughout the day. Other controls of
attention slow down our thinking so we can plan and complete tasks
competently and efficiently. An example of attention control is
a child's ability to resist the temptation to think about the
party she's invited to tonight so she can concentrate on the word
problem her math teacher is explaining. Attention keeps your child
focused while filtering out distractions. Children vary widely
in how often their attention controls function effectively.
The Memory System
Elsa keeps "bombing out" on tests or quizzes that force
her to memorize and later answer questions that have only one
correct response. She recently flunked a quiz on plant structure
despite studying like a devout monk. "I thought I knew all
that stuff, but it must have just leaked out of my brain while
I was sleeping." Our school years involve more strenuous
exercising of memory than at any other time in our lives. In fact,
much more memory is needed for school success than is required
in virtually any career. To varying extents, every course in school
is a memory workout. And memory is downright complicated with
countless little facets to go with the many different kinds of
things we try to remember. Every student has memory compartments
that serve him well, while other parts of memory bring on varying
degrees of frustration. There are countless intellectually competent
kids who unravel in school because they understand far better
than they remember. Ironically, there are many students with superb
rote memory who succeed with flying colors through their school
years simply by regurgitating factual data. They may be far less
successful during adult careers when memory plays much less of
a starring role.
The Language System
Riley just received an A+ on a highly original short story; he's
always gotten As in English and he loves to read and write. This
guy makes most schoolwork look like the proverbial piece of cake.
That's because school is a perfect fit for born linguists like
Riley. The language ingredients of learning include, among other
things, the ease with which a brain detects differences between
the forty-four or so different English language sounds (an indispensable
ingredient of reading skill), the ability to understand, remember,
and start using new vocabulary, the capacity to express thoughts
while speaking and on paper, and the speed of comprehension needed
to keep pace with a seemingly supersonic flow of verbal explanations
and instructions. Learning a second language is another example
of an academic demand that calls for strong verbal capacity. Not
surprisingly, kids who are good with language are more likely
to succeed throughout school. On the other hand, those poor souls
with even the mildest (often unapparent) language inefficiencies
are apt to suffer agonizing pain trying to make it in our schools.
The Spatial Ordering System
Marcus's parents fret over his inability to distinguish left from
right; more often than not, he puts his shoe on the wrong foot.
Marcus's father once commented to me, "It's as if this kid
is completely lost in space. He never remembers where he's left
anything and he puts his shirt on backward more often than not
-- even when he thinks about it." Also, his confused drawings
in school are a source of shame to Marcus. These shortcomings
reveal his weak spatial ordering. The spatial ordering system
is designed to enable us to deal with or create information arranged
in a gestalt, a visual pattern, or a configuration. Through spatial
ordering we perceive how parts of things fit together. We are
able to study and later recognize familiar shapes, their relative
positions, and what goes with what to make a pattern, such as
the letter "h" or an octagon or your boyfriend's face.
Spatial ordering also helps us organize the various material necessities
of the day, such as pencils, notebooks, desks, locker contents,
and other props needed for academic efficiency and proficiency.
Spatial ordering calls for the use of closed circuits between
our eyes and our brains, wiring designed to discern patterns and
discriminate between them. People with strong spatial ordering
are not likely to waste much time searching for lost objects;
they know where things are. On a more complex level, spatial ordering
enables us to think with pictures, so a child hearing a story
about Robin Hood can visualize the dramatic events, while a student
in art class can picture the steps needed to undertake a ceramics
project.
The Sequential Ordering System
If you tell Suzanne to do three things in a row, she appears dazed
and ends up fulfilling only the last step of the instruction.
Her teacher describes her as "strictly a one-step processor."
She has trouble recalling the steps required to tackle a long-division
problem. This girl is contending with her inadequate capacity
for sequencing. This system, a working partner of spatial ordering,
helps us deal with the chains of information that come into or
depart from our minds coded in a particular serial order or sequence.
Throughout their day, kids are under attack by a furious onslaught
of sequences, which range from the steps in balancing an algebraic
equation, to the order of digits in a new friend's telephone number,
to the chronology of events culminating in the election of a president.
A teacher's directions are transmitted in a verbal sequence. But
the most challenging and insidious sequence of all is called time.
Sequential ordering forms the basis for time management, for understanding
time, estimating time, allocating time, and being aware of time's
passage. On a higher plane, sequential ordering is involved in
many forms of reasoning, perhaps most vividly showcased in a tenth
grader's geometric proof.
The Motor System
Alcindor is frustrated and exquisitely self-conscious about not
being able to ride a two-wheeler when all of his buddies can do
so effortlessly. He feels like a klutz. The poor kid is living
with a breakdown in his motor system, at least at this point in
his development. The motor system is supposed to govern the very
precise and complex network of tight connections between the brain
and various muscles all over the body. A child's motor functions
determine whether or not she will excel in sports and, if so,
whether it will be field hockey, tennis, or track. Other neuromotor
functions make possible cursive writing, playing the fiddle, and
guiding scissors. Motor coordination is important to children;
being able to show off proficiency makes an important contribution
to overall self-concept and confidence. Clumsy children may come
to feel globally inferior to their agile classmates.
The Higher Thinking System
Melinda just can't seem to grasp the concept of mass in her high
school physics class. The difference between velocity and acceleration,
the meaning of resistance in a wire, and the phenomenon of static
electricity have also eluded her. She willingly fesses up, "I
don't get physics; I don't get it at all." Melinda is struggling
with inadequate higher thinking, a system that represents the
real summit, the very peak of our thinking abilities. Jackson
can't seem to decipher the symbolism in a poem by T. S. Eliot
but has no trouble with symbols in his advanced algebra class.
He has a very specific breakdown in higher thinking when he is
using language. Myrna is great at figuring out what's wrong when
her computer isn't functioning but she has trouble figuring out
the point of view expressed in an editorial on global warming.
Higher thinking includes the ability to problem-solve and reason
logically, to form and make use of concepts (such as mass in physics),
to understand how and when rules apply, and to get the point of
a complicated idea. Higher thinking also takes in critical and
creative thinking.
The Social Thinking System Bethany never gets
invited to parties. The phone rings off the hook for her brother
and sister, but never for her. At school she is picked on, jeered
at, taunted, and avoided like a venomous snake by her classmates.
She has no friends and is understandably crushed. Bethany is lacking
in the kind of social thinking that is needed for maintaining
successful relationships. Her mother laments, "Bethany would
give her right arm to have a true friend, but it seems as if every
time she comes close to having a satisfying relationship, she
messes up. She either says or does something that upsets and puts
off her new friend. And Bethany has no idea what she's doing wrong,
no idea at all."
Children's social abilities occupy center stage
in school. The social spotlights are glaring. They illuminate
a galaxy of interpersonal strengths and shortcomings. Interactions
with peers yield the bulk of the gratification or humiliation
a student experiences in life. Some kids seem to be born with
distinct social talents that allow for friendship formation and
a solid reputation; others have to be taught how to relate. A
child (or adult) may be strong in the seven other neurodevelopmental
systems yet seem to fail in life because he or she is unable to
behave in a way that fits appropriately with others of his age
group. He may have trouble establishing new friendships and keeping
old ones afloat, working collaboratively in groups, or coping
tactfully with flammable conflicts involving classmates. Even
the most brilliant child can end up frustrated if he is too shy,
socially inept, or antisocial. School affords little or no privacy.
Those who have stunted functions for social interaction are condemned
to feel the pain of exposure and daily humiliation. They are likely
to be the most downtrodden students in a school (and also the
most anguished employees on the job).
Parents and teachers experience satisfaction
watching children's neurodevelopmental systems expand in their
capabilities over days, months, and years, especially when the
functions are put to good use, exercised like limber muscles.
Caring adults have to realize that a system deteriorates drastically
when it is underutilized. For example, if a child almost never
elaborates on ideas, rarely talks in complete sentences, and instead
overindulges in words like "stuff" and "thing,"
or else in profanity, then his verbal skills will stagnate, fail
to grow, and even diminish. If you never do any running, the neurodevelopmental
functions needed for running are likely to starve, inevitably
eroding your overall gross motor performance.
Your child's neurodevelopmental systems never
get a chance to perform as soloists; they constantly join forces
to accomplish good results. Memory partners with language to help
your third grader recall the words to "Silent Night."
Attention control reacts with gross motor ability to produce the
sinking of a long putt on the eighteenth green. Sequencing, visual
memory, and language combine with social awareness to let you
explain to a friend the plot of the science fiction thriller you
saw on TV last night.
Neurodevelopmental Profiles
Every one of our children ambles down the highly judgmental corridors
of school each day dragging along his mind's profile, a partly
hidden spreadsheet of personal strengths and weaknesses. And throughout
every moment of the school day that profile gets put to the test.
Some of our children are blessed with profiles that are magnificently
matched to expectations, while others are saddled with profiles
that fail to mesh with demands -- an all too common disparity
that can arise at any age.
If a child you know has a profile that's not
conforming to demands, don't give up and don't allow him to give
up either. That very profile has a good chance of coming into
its own sooner or later. That's because we know a pattern of strengths
and weaknesses may operate particularly well at specific ages
and in certain contexts but not nearly so optimally in other times
and under alternative circumstances.
This was just the case with Toby. He was a kid
who had a lot of trouble with the memory demands of both elementary
and middle school. He had trouble remembering facts and skills
quickly and automatically, and it was hard for him to hold several
things in his mind at once while completing an assignment. As
a result he was wiped out in algebra and had a very hard time
with writing assignments. In the latter case, he kept forgetting
what he was going to write whenever he paused to think about spelling.
But Toby was brilliantly creative, and he was a phenomenal conceptualizer
and a razor-sharp critical thinker. After barely surviving daily
disgrace in elementary and middle school due to his memory shortfall,
he rose like a ballistic missile when he was allowed to take advanced
placement courses in history, English, and art in high school.
A guidance counselor had been humane and perceptive enough to
know that sometimes you fix a weakness by pursuing strengths.
His honor classes all downplayed sheer memory work and stressed
instead original and critical thinking. Graduating near the top
of his class, Toby majored in political science at Brown University,
and is now a Ph.D. candidate with an interest in the career pathways
of successful national leaders. He has just written an important
book on the subject of political motivation. He still claims to
have trouble with his memory, but that doesn't seem to matter
or interfere anymore. Computers have helped enormously. As he
reflects, "My hard drive is sitting on my desk, so it doesn't
need to be housed in my skull! Besides, no one around here gets
tenure because of his memory." I think a big part of
teaching and parenting entails helping kids make it through periods
when they feel inadequate. It happens to everyone once in a while.
And that is why we need to think about how a particular mind is
fitting in at a particular time of life. It means we need to consider
"a mind at a time" (a second meaning of the title of
this book).
Not only may a mind come into its own at any
time, but also a profile that is perfectly set up for success
in school may not be nearly so well fitted for career attainment.
A kid's profile may win all sorts of praise throughout her elementary
school years, but that in no way guarantees that her particular
profile will satisfy career requirements at age twenty-three.
Clearly then, some profiles work better at certain ages than at
others. Sometimes the very same traits that jeopardize your kid
in third grade could evolve into his prize assets during adulthood.
Distractibility and daydreaming during reading class may be an
attention deficit yet may also be early indicators of creativity
and innovative thinking, "symptoms" that will bolster
her career as a scriptwriter or music video producer. A student's
trouble understanding language may cause him to do much less of
his thinking with words, as a result of which he strengthens his
visual and spatial thinking, destined to serve him well two decades
later in his career as a mechanical engineer designing nuclear
power plants.
When a child brings home disappointing grades,
parents can take solace in the well-documented finding that report
cards are notoriously poor at predicting how your child will eventually
do in a career. In fact, sometimes when I see a child in my office
who is failing or perhaps just floundering in school, I love to
rev him up by saying something like this: "Hey, Reginald,
when you go back to school on Monday, take a good look around
your classroom and pick out a kid you really envy, someone who
gets fantastic grades, is good-looking and is a super jock too,
you know, a kid who always seems to do everything right. And who
is popular. Look closely at that kid, and seriously consider the
possibility that this may well be his finest hour! There is a
good chance he'll be working for you someday." I guess that's
another way of saying that different profiles are destined to
make the grade at different times of life and when the conditions
are right. Adult life offers many more opportunities for infinitely
more kinds of minds than are available during child life. Parents
need to find things to praise in a struggling child and make sure
that he doesn't give up on himself and get depressed and distressed
while waiting for his day to come.
Not only do different profiles have their day
in the limelight eventually, but also children are capable of
changing their strengths and weaknesses over time. Take heart,
parents: neurodevelopmental profiles are not like computer hardware
or fossils. They are resilient. One despondent mother confided,
"My daughter Cathy is so sweet and kind. She will do anything
for anyone. But school is such a frustration for her. I sometimes
wish we could just trade in the learning part of her mind."
Well, it turns out you can change your mind but not exchange it.
For instance, some individuals plagued with language impairments
in school become fluent and articulate speakers and have phenomenal
reading comprehension by the age of thirty. They actually have
built up their language system after having been nonverbal schoolchildren.
Through extensive use of language (often within their chosen careers),
they become respectable linguists. Of course, there may be some
ceilings, limitations on how strong a weakness can become. If
I, an inept athlete, were given batting lessons in baseball, I
could improve some (there is a lot of room to do so), but no matter
how dismal a season they were having, it is highly unlikely that
I could ever play shortstop for the Boston Red Sox.
Many individuals grow up in homes that are dysfunctional,
neighborhoods that are violent, environments that seem to starve
their minds, yet somehow they manage to salvage their minds, to
discover some ways of learning and succeeding despite biographical
odds that are so stacked against them. Some of this resiliency
may result from hidden neurodevelopmental strengths that they
discover and ignite within themselves. There are well-known attorneys,
preachers, and playwrights who grew up in poverty but had superior
innate verbal wiring. Having a talent as an orator, actor, or
comedian can be the wellspring of resiliency. Of course, sometimes
hidden talents remain forever hidden and go to waste instead of
triggering resiliency. That means parents and teachers have to
be on a constant, diligent quest for buried treasure within children.
How a Mind's Profile Comes to Be
What shapes your child's profile? Can you influence the process?
These are thorny questions, ones we shall confront throughout
this book. No doubt multiple forces interact to determine a child's
strengths and shortcomings. And parents are in a pretty good position
to influence most -- but not all -- of these forces.
Genes
For better or for worse, mothers and fathers don't get to select
or reject the traits a child inherits. Sandy is just as absentminded
and disorganized as her mom, who says, "How in the world
am I supposed I help my daughter get her act together when I'm
even more discombobulated than she is?" Many strengths and
weaknesses appear to be inherited -- either completely or in part.
In the best of all possible worlds sharing aspects of your child's
profile can make you a more sympathetic parent. You know what
he's going through. In my experience, often when a child has a
particular kind of learning weakness, much the same pattern will
be plainly evident in one or both parents or else in a sibling.
When parents observe us testing a child, it is very common to
hear from a father or mother: "I had trouble with the same
things he did!"
Joey, an absolutely delightful patient, came
to me recently for a follow-up visit. This country boy with his
close crew cut and his reversed baseball cap permanently bonded
to his skull actually lives on a farm close to my own. Despite
being only ten, Joey always talks like a venerable elder statesman.
During a recent visit to my office, when I inquired about how
things were going in school, Joey replied, "Not so good,
Doc." When I asked what he meant by that, he responded, "It's
my handwriting, just my handwriting, same ole thing. My teacher,
Mrs. Bailey, she says she can't read nothin' I write." I
asked, "Well, Joey, what are you doing about it?" The
boy reported in a slow, almost fatherly voice, "Well, Doc,
I did what I needed to do. I had a long, long talk with her. I
told her, Mrs. Bailey, you know my granddaddy wrote like that,
and my daddy writes just like that, and I been writin' like that
since I been six years old. Mrs. Bailey, in my family, that's
as good as it gits." Joey was pleading for the weighty influence
of genetic factors. With all due respect to Joey, genes are powerful
but they don't prevent us from working on our weak spots, especially
if we decide they're worth working on.
Family Life and Stress Level
Billy's family has been so overwhelmed with financial, marital,
and other domestic problems that his mother has not been able
to help him with schoolwork. She complains, "I have all I
can do to get by, to earn some money, to keep our place looking
decent, to feed the kids the right food, and to make sure the
dogs get some exercise." She herself had a hard time in school
and never got through ninth grade. Billy has no interest in school
and derives little if any positive feeling from learning. Clearly
when families feel as if they are buried beneath the stresses
and strains of daily existence, it may be hard to foster a stimulating
intellectual life through shared experiences and high-level discussions
at the dinner table regarding current events. Cassandra's is a
very different story. Cassie (to her friends) has a mother who
is a dermatologist and a father who's a trial judge. At home there
are frequent discussions about the world of ideas. Both parents
love to read. They value their intellectual life and share it
abundantly with their only daughter. They have infected their
daughter with intellectual curiosity. Cassie excels academically
and has an unquenchable thirst for new knowledge. Contrast her
with Billy. Socioeconomic realities exert powerful influences
on a child's development. Poverty has its risks, as does being
overprivileged and overindulged. The neighborhood, the community,
and local resources of many different kinds impinge upon a mind's
evolving strengths and deficits.
Cultural Factors
Suzie comes from a family recently emigrated from Hong Kong. Her
family has always had a very powerful work ethic dating back generations.
All of her Chinese friends share the same background, one that
takes education seriously. Suzie comes home from school and works
for four to six hours without a break. She assumes that this is
the way people are, even though her classmates are out playing
volleyball and planning the weekend's parties. Suzie's neurodevelopmental
capacities keep on getting stretched, perhaps even stretched to
the limit. She has developed extraordinary powers of concentration
and can exert mental effort whenever she needs to. Her teacher
has marveled at Suzie's tenacity, as he comments, "This girl
is the ultimate plugger. She won't give up ever until what she
has produced is of the highest quality no matter how long it takes
her." Her flawless honor grades testify to this. A student's
cultural background may help determine which neurodevelopmental
strengths get stronger and which ones do not. In some cultural
settings athletic prowess is considered valuable; in others, sports
are deemed trivial pastimes. Whether or not a teenager reads novels,
does crossword puzzles, repairs jeeps, attends Italian opera,
engages in household chores, or hunts white-tailed deer vividly
reflects the culture in which he or she is growing up. These activities,
in turn, profoundly influence a child's profile of strengths and
weaknesses.
Friends
Christian has pretty much stopped doing any schoolwork. In ninth
grade, he is very popular. Most of his friends feel that homework
completion is not cool; rather it's a pursuit designed exclusively
for geeks, dorks, and other weirdos. Christian, who savors his
popularity like a rare vintage Burgundy, has caved in to the social
pressure and is failing several subjects. According to his father,
"My kid has been lost to his friends. They're all he cares
about. I feel as if he has fled from our family and cares only
for the approval of his peers. He performs for his friends like
a puppet; he'll do whatever it takes to win their applause. And
he's with kids who live only in the present. They couldn't care
less about school and about their minds."
Friends play a dominant role in shaping the
brains of their friends. Children who have no intellectual interests
become negative role models for one another. Learning and succeeding
in school may be perceived as some kind of social taboo. On the
other hand, I have one patient, a thirteen-year-old boy from New
York, whose friends and he have a strong interest in politics.
They worked on a local campaign last summer and are incessantly
talking politics, discussing editorials in the New York Times,
and debating raging political issues. He told me they consider
themselves "local political dissidents," as their views
are pretty radical. In the meantime, they are developing extraordinary
language, critical thinking, and reading ability, bolstering their
minds' profiles. Their parents are in awe of these boys and girls.
One mother confessed, "Half the time I don't even understand
what they're talking about, but it sure sounds impressive -- and
a little intimidating. I love listening to them. I'm proud of
them all. I think they are becoming the leaders of the future.
They are really lucky to have each other and we parents are so
fortunate to have them as our children."
Health
Deanna suffered a bad case of viral meningitis when she was fourteen
months old. Following her illness she developed a seizure disorder,
one that has been difficult to control ever since. She is delayed
in reading and math. There is a strong suspicion that her medical
history played a role in weakening certain neurodevelopmental
functions important for acquiring basic skills. Deanna has noticeable
gaps in language function and in certain parts of her memory,
and she becomes frustrated in school. Her older sister, Beth,
worries about her all the time. She always accompanies Deanna
when she comes to see me in my office. Beth informed me once,
"Deanna really feels dumb. Between her seizures and her trouble
at school she feels like she just can't do anything right. I feel
so bad for her." Numerous medical factors either foster or
impede brain development during the school years. Nutrition, certain
illnesses, and physical trauma all may play a role in the shaping
of a profile.
Emotions
Geraldine has been depressed all year. Her parents got a divorce,
she broke up with her boyfriend, and her grandmother died last
summer. Her mother and father feel guilty, as they worry they
have damaged their daughter permanently. Geraldine feels sad much
of every day. She's lost interest in school; her grades show it.
Students with anxiety or depressed feelings often lose all interest
and become inhibited about performing in school, which then begins
to stunt their academic and neurodevelopmental growth. Geraldine
has closed her mind to new learning during a period of school
in which kids ordinarily develop their ability to absorb and think
about highly abstract terms such as creationism, symbolism, altruism,
and imperialism. If her mind stays absent from school, this important
growth spurt in higher-order thinking may fail to take place.
Emotions and neurodevelopmental functions are like a two-way street:
emotional problems may weaken the functions and weakened functions
can cause emotional turmoil.
Educational Experience
Arturo had been in first- and second-grade classrooms in which
there were forty-two students with one teacher and only an occasional
aide. His parents are utterly frustrated. His mom complained to
me at a conference where I spoke, "Arturo is lost, totally
lost in that school. He's the kind of kid who doesn't make trouble
for anyone but you might not even notice he's around. And he'll
never ask for help. He pretends he does understand when he doesn't
get it half the time. But the school's so big; they don't see
that he's getting nowhere. I'm so nervous about him." Arturo's
reading instruction was inadequate, and he fell further and further
behind in math as well. Now in sixth grade he remains seriously
delayed and has lost his drive, having given up on himself. He
is starting to get some individualized help, which is just beginning
to make a difference in his performance and his self-esteem. Hopefully,
it's not too late. The quality of a child's teaching most certainly
affects his or her mind profile. In fact, recent studies using
sophisticated brain scans have shown vividly that good instruction
can actually result in positive changes in brain structure. It
is possible to see increases in brain tissue when parts of the
brain get properly stimulated after having been neglected. Also,
a child's educational track record profoundly affects motivation,
as kids like Arturo, who have failed over and over again in the
past, may be sapped of motivation and sink even further into failure.
Success, on the other hand, has a way of breeding more success.
How Lifestyles May Affect Learning Styles
Increasingly over the years, I've heard a succession of mothers,
fathers, and educators grumble about contemporary children's ways
of life and all the ways in which those ways of life are "dumbing
them down." A middle school English teacher voiced her concerns
as follows: "I feel I'm at a real disadvantage. The students
I teach have spent so much of their lives on couches watching
sitcoms and violent videos, all of which require negligible concentration,
have only sparse details and no implications or hidden meanings
in them, and resolve nearly instantaneously any conflicts in their
trite plots. How can I then expect my kids to come in here and
delay their gratification to wade through A Tale of Two Cities
or write a creative short story of their own? So many of their
brains are just plain out of shape for what I think they need
to be doing, and even enjoying, in my English class." I had
to agree. Rapidly paced entertainment can make school content
seem like a colossal bore!
I have been finding in all my clinical work
that many aspects of contemporary life can stunt the growth of
key neurodevelopmental functions. First, there are the effects
of all the electronic experiences children and teenagers take
in and savor. Television is the most well established culprit.
Aside from the violence that may model impulsive, acting-out behaviors,
there is the passivity involved in watching most TV programs.
Inactive information uptake while lying on your back and consuming
buttery popcorn eclipses opportunities for creative thinking,
brainstorming, and the development of products and hobbies --
all more active and proactive mind-strengthening activities. For
the most part, television shows offer stimulation in small chunks
without much call for sustained attention and deep concentration.
At times I think certain television shows serve as models of attentional
dysfunction for their young viewers. Canned laughter during situation
comedies is a major offender in my opinion and should probably
be banned as a form of intellectual child abuse! Imagine being
told when something is funny -- the ultimate affront to language
processing and higher thinking. Moreover, the verbal content of
television tends to be woefully unsophisticated, and the stress
is very much on vivid visual imagery rather than complex language
use or interpretation.
Unsophisticated language is also a feature of
much of the music that interests children. There was a time when
a composer would hire a lyricist, a kind of poet, to fashion the
words to his music. Lyricists are now mainly unemployed, as the
person who creates the melody also produces the language accompaniment,
which is often grammatically and semantically impoverished, simply
everyday language rather than language that plays on words and
cleverly turns a phrase. Thus, music no longer reinforces verbal
abilities. Also, much of the music to which children are exposed
tends to make use of very brief themes or melodic lines, which
keep on coming back monotonously. As a result, the ability to
retain patterns in memory is not strengthened through music (as
I believe it once was).
Electronic games have also taken their toll,
although sometimes they have a positive effect on eye-hand coordination
and spatial ordering. Unfortunately the latter capacities do not
make an enormous contribution to a child's intellectual development.
One of my patients, a nine-year-old boy, let me know, "I
love my games more than anything else. I hate to read because
it's not as exciting and fun. I can beat all my friends and my
big brother even when it's a new game. I would play all day and
skip school if I could. That would be neat. When I grow up, I
want to be a game designer."
Use of the Internet is a mixed blessing. On
the one hand, leaning to surf the Internet for specific bits of
information can become a powerful research skill. However, some
students have made use of Web sites to download information without
really understanding or integrating it. Thus, the process runs
the risk of becoming a new mode of passive learning or perhaps
even a way of acquiring plagiarizing skills.
Family life can also determine development.
When families feel overwhelmed, life can be nothing short of frenetic
at home. As one mother told me, "We barely see each other.
We're always on the run or getting ready for some major event.
I can't remember the last time we sat down and had a decent dinner
table conversation. In fact, with my job and my husband's job,
and all the kids' activities, most nights we don't even eat together."
That makes it hard for family life to reinforce communication
skills, doesn't it? The lack can be even more pronounced among
the many single-parent families whose daily lives can be even
more logistically consumed with little or no time for any mind-enhancing
reflection and discussion. Frazzled lifestyle patterns can also
cost something in terms of children's nutrition. Skipping breakfast,
overindulging in convenient junk foods, and becoming addicted
to empty calories of various sorts may be taking a hidden toll
on brain development and mental energy.
Nightlife is yet another potential invader.
I find that kids are orienting increasingly toward nighttime pleasures,
often getting to sleep late and having trouble functioning in
school the next day. TV, the Internet, social life, e-mail, instant
messaging, and a multitude of other thrilling forms of nocturnal
experience make homework and other educationally useful activities
seem like impositions or chores to get over with as expeditiously
as possible. And students who rush through their work derive little
intellectual benefit or stimulation from it. As one mother recently
exclaimed over the phone, "I'm not surprised he's having
trouble staying awake in class, the kid's up until 2:00 a.m. listening
to music, watching TV, and doing his instant messaging, and if
we're lucky, rushing through his homework at the last second."
I think that mother's right. Suddenly, more and more kids are
becoming night people. What used to be the downtime of the day
has now become for so many children the most stimulating and distracting
interlude.
I sometimes refer to a state of mind (or body)
that I call "visual-motor ecstasy." In this form of
nirvana kids seem to derive excessive pleasure from the movement
of their bodies through space. Activities such as skateboarding,
Rollerblading, driving a car fast, or even skiing can become obsessive
experiences for some kids. These are all nonverbal activities
that are certainly good as somewhat mindless forms of entertainment,
but they become hazardous to mind health when they are pursued
in excess to the exclusion of learning. An excessive interest
in sports may also qualify as a form of visual-motor ecstasy.
Contemporary culture values visual appearance,
perhaps too much. Lots of students become preoccupied with their
bodies and their physical appearance. As one father noted, "I
can't believe it, my eleven-year-old son spends what seem like
hours in the morning inspecting himself in the mirror and making
all sorts of minor adjustments to his appearance, like making
sure his dirty blue jeans and torn T-shirt look just right. I
wish he'd expend that much time and energy on his homework."
Lifestyle issues also arise when a child becomes
overly programmed. Schools that are highly and tightly structured
so that there is little time for original thinking can short-circuit
brainstorming in students. This is especially the case when a
child is also heavily laden with scheduled activities after school
and on weekends. One girl complained to me, "I have no free
time at all. It's as if I'm in the army. Every day, I have to
report somewhere at some time to do something I'm not sure I want
to do or need to do. I keep wishing I had nothing to do."
I think having nothing to do is plenty to do. I always admire
kids who can entertain themselves for hours on end; that is an
important strength, often the forerunner of creativity and resourcefulness.
Millions of teenagers have jobs after school,
often for more than twenty hours a week. Frequently, these jobs
entail little or no mind work. A cashier at a supermarket uses
a scanner to do the math work and has only repetitious, rather
undemanding verbal exchanges (e.g., "Paper or plastic?")
for hours on end. A working student may be more likely to give
homework short shrift and find school an irritant if he is trying
to make money and save up for a car. It looks as if these kids
should be working somewhat less than twenty hours a week if that's
economically feasible.
Adolescence is also the time when kids are most
prone to the effects of drugs and alcohol, both of which can have
negative effects on brain growth and development. Teenagers need
to be made aware of such risky addictions.
Clearly, there are plenty of kids who grow up
in our contemporary culture with all its potential sidetracks
and hidden traps yet thrive in school and go on to develop great
kinds of minds. On the other hand, I have met so many others with
subtle or not so subtle learning difficulties whose weaknesses
have been further weakened as a direct result of some negative
lifestyle forces such as the ones I have enumerated. In some instances
students who have been frustrated in school seek refuge in intellectually
void pursuits as they try to escape from the pain of their educational
wounds. In all likelihood, television, visual-motor ecstasy, a
strong interest in appearance, as well as the other distractions
I have mentioned, are pretty benign until they start to occupy
too much of a kid's time and focus, to the exclusion of essential
mind-cultivating experience. That means that as parents you have
an obligation to keep things in check, to gauge whether a cultural
phenomenon is somehow out of control and then to make the critical
adjustments. Contemporary lifestyles are desirable in moderation.
Splitting Rather Than Lumping
I've noticed that the people who study or work with kids can be
divided into lumpers and splitters. I must confess to being a
splitter, quite possibly a terminal case. That is to say, I am
steadfastly unwilling to lump children into categories and then
assume that all members of each category are pretty much alike.
To the contrary, to me kids have more differences than resemblances.
In fact, every time I meet a child in my office, I encounter some
phenomenon that I have never seen before in any other child. Each
kid unrolls an original mural of mind traits. The challenge is
to understand his or her special wiring and its implications for
parenting, counseling, and educating.
In A Mind at a Time I will advocate
and demonstrate an approach that stresses close observation and
accurate description instead of lumping kids together in a category
(such as ADD). Teachers, parents, and even the children themselves
need to be able to observe, talk about, and work with profiles.
They need to locate those trouble spots where facets of a profile
don't mesh with facets of school. In this way, we can understand
what's blocking the way when a child is stymied.
The identification and celebration of strengths
may well be even more important. I believe that when your child
has strengths that are suppressed, abilities he is prevented from
using while growing up, he becomes a virtual time bomb primed
for detonation. Gerard was a fourteen-year-old from a small town
in North Carolina. He was short and razor thin and looked more
like ten than fourteen. Gerard harbored neurodevelopmental dysfunctions
in language, memory, and his attention, but had brilliant mechanical
problem-solving abilities, along with strong social skills. Nevertheless,
he was in serious jeopardy in ninth grade. Gerard was a discipline
problem. He often tried to act defiant, ultra-cool, and tough
in class, probably to conceal his physical immaturity and academic
humiliation. There were multiple charges against him, including
that he would not remove his jacket in English class, chewed gum
(a school felony), mumbled offensive language in front of his
teachers, refused to "suit up" for physical education
(protecting his undeveloped body from peer scrutiny), insisted
on wearing his baseball cap permanently, and sported lewdly suggestive
T-shirts. He had stopped submitting homework, and his report cards
were saturated with acerbic moral condemnations.
Gerard's father was the manager of a service
station. He commented to me that on weekends Gerard would come
to work with him. He stated that Gerard "is no problem at
all when he's with me on Saturdays and Sundays. In fact, that
kid's the best worker I have. Folks come in and ask for Gerard
when their car breaks down. That little guy can stick his blond
head under a hood and figure out almost anything that's wrong,
and you know, he never studied cars. He just senses how things
work and why they don't work. He's got common sense but no book
sense. I was just like him when I was young. He also has the best
people skills, the best sense of humor. And he's real kind to
everyone. Everybody wants to talk to Gerard. You know that boy
has all he needs to be a successful grown-up, but to tell you
the truth, I doubt I'm ever gonna get him there."
Gerard's mechanical aptitude and people skills
were not valued or even recognized in his high school. But then
Gerard's father had a brainstorm. He heard about a vocational
school in the next town. Overcoming all kinds of red tape and
bureaucratic barriers, he managed to get Gerard into that school
for tenth grade. Gerard flourished in the auto mechanics class,
but interestingly he started to make extraordinary gains in English
and in math. In eleventh grade his terrific people skills got
him elected to the student government. Now in twelfth grade, he
recently told me, "This is a great school. I really fit in.
I love cars, but I don't think I want to be a 'wrenchy' type forever.
Someday I'm planning to design cars or be some kind of a sports
car dealer." Gerard is finding his niche, and that is making
all the difference. Discovering a place for your kind of mind,
a place where your profile can thrive, almost always works wonders.
Sadly, vocational schools, such as the one Gerard has been attending,
are not as prevalent as they once were. This shortage discriminates
against great minds like Gerard's. As his father relates, "This
boy would be in jail now if he couldn't practice his specialty
in school. He's so happy and so are we."
The Early Detection of Dysfunction
It is a commonly held belief that the earlier you detect and deal
with your child's dysfunctions, the more likely you are to prevent
disastrous behavioral complications. I believe there is some truth
to that. It might seem odd, therefore, that this book deals exclusively
with school-aged children rather than beginning with infancy.
In part, this is because my expertise is limited to school-aged
children and adolescents. Additionally, so many of the neurodevelopmental
functions needed for learning cannot be assessed until they are
called for in school. Problems with memory, with time management,
with the understanding of abstract language, along with hundreds
of other breakdowns in learning are just not detectable until
kids are actually attending school. As the demands keep changing,
learning differences can and do crop up for the first time at
all grade levels from kindergarten through the final year of college.
I'm bothered by the fact that some academicians, policy makers,
and early educators have maintained that if you don't fix a learning
problem before age six, it will be impossible to deal with later
on. This assertion is false. As we shall see, even adults can
show remarkable improvement in one or more of their neurodevelopmental
systems. It's never too late to understand and strengthen a mind.
Some Adult Implications
Although this book concentrates on neurodevelopmental variation
during the school years, any reader is likely to perceive its
implications for adults. In fact, I daresay no one will be able
to read this book without feeling as if he's gazing into a mirror
while encountering the descriptions of individuals who struggle
with the features of their wiring. The very same dysfunctions
that trip up so many children often snare unsuspecting adults
-- in their careers, in their avocations, and in their functioning
within families.
Here are three examples:
Donna is a middle school principal. She is an efficient manager
and a popular leader among the kids and teachers. But she has
serious problems with public speaking. She chokes up and often
feels she makes a fool of herself at PTA and school board meetings.
As a student in school, she had always been very quiet. She doesn't
realize she is battling a lifelong problem with her own wiring;
Donna has serious difficulty transforming her ideas into words
and sentences. She has timely things to say and excellent insights
into key issues, but finding words and constructing sentences
are painful brain activities for her. She suspects her problem
is "just anxiety," but her apprehension is justified
when it comes to oral presentations. As she puts it, "I get
so uptight when I have to speak in public. My ideas come out sounding
too simple or even distorted. Yet I can write well and I do just
fine talking slowly in a conversation. But I can't find words
fast and organize my thoughts when I give a speech, and that's
a real problem in my job, especially since I'd like to be a superintendent
someday."
Kathleen is a young CPA who entered her father's
accounting firm last year. An only child in a closely knit loving
family, she chose this career mainly to please her parents (something
she had always sought to do). But her work has been uniformly
poor, disappointing, and exasperating, especially for her dad.
She consistently reveals her superb social and communication skills
and is richly creative and affably energetic, but Kathleen is
hopelessly distractible and tends to rush through every assignment
she undertakes, often leaving behind a hazy cloud of careless
mistakes and gaping oversights. She possesses the kind of mind
that favors and savors the big picture while often glossing over
smaller points. Her brain just abhors minute details, such as
the ones on an accountant's spreadsheets. Kathleen is wired for
conceptualizing, creating, and theorizing. She probably should
not be a CPA, but she doesn't seem to understand and perceive
the career implications of her brain's characteristics. Her remarkable
strengths are going untapped. She is now showing classic signs
of depression and says that her "everyday existence feels
so meaningless and aimless."
Brad loved orthopedic surgery in medical school.
He had always been a sports fanatic, and the lure of sports medicine
as a career enticed him to endure medical school (which was tedious
and difficult for him). He is now an orthopedic resident. Sadly,
he has been totally incompetent, possibly hazardous, in the operating
room. No one can fathom it; he was such a motivated medical student.
It turns out that this bright guy lacks the spatial perception
and nonverbal problem-solving skill (a form of mechanical aptitude)
needed to function as a skilled orthopedic surgeon. He is struggling
with an all too common insidious plight, namely the chaotic career
of a person whose interests don't coincide with the wiring of
his particular kind of mind. Brad is in pursuit of what he's unlikely
to succeed at. He's unaware of this risky discrepancy. He has
found no channel for his many assets. The chief of orthopedic
surgery has recommended that he leave the department because of
"persistent incompetence as a clinician."
Each of these individuals is highly capable.
Each has a niche out there somewhere they can fit into. None of
the three has much understanding of her or his profile, of its
lack of fit with current demands. The cost of their lack of insight
will be high for these three bright and motivated people. They
have lots of company. There are countless highly competent people
who contend with the same sorts of poor fit without knowing it.
They would be on the road to recovery if only they could see clearly
the mismatch of their occupations with their minds.
Now over the next seven chapters of A Mind
at a Time, I will elaborate on the eight neurodevelopmental
systems and the potent ways in which they affect lives.
Copyright © 2002 by Mel Levine
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